What is love? What is true love? Love makes all things beautiful. As a wife and a mother of three, I have been learning a great lesson about true love. Before getting married and before having children, I thought life was all about me. Once I have been giving my life to my family, something significant changed within me. Life has been no longer about "me", but "we". Life is all about loving and serving others. Life is about giving and receiving love. There are more than nine principles of true love, but I would love to share with you about what I have been learning. Plus, the number "9" is a great number for the Thai people. Number 9 means moving forward.

1. True love is selfless.

If you truly love someone, you would be willing to give of yourself to him / her. You would be willing to give what is the most precious thing for you to the other person. You would be willing to give what the other person needs. You would be willing to give up something that is very important to you to give them something that is very important to them. For example, if your boyfriend / girlfriend / spouse loves watching TV, you would let him / her watch TV instead of paying attention to you or helping you do the house chores. If he / she loves going out with friends, you would allow him / her to be with friends. If he / she has a bad day from work, you would give him / her attention, care, and ask how he / she is feeling. You would be willing to listen without judgment, but with love. Giving yourself to your others brings a valuable reward. It makes you happy.

2. True love is unconditional.

If you truly love someone, you would let the other person be and not try to change him / her. You would give without expecting things in return. You would accept the other person for who she / he is. You would forgive the other person when the other person hurts your feelings. You would let go of your ego and be humble to true love.

3. True love is nurturing.

If you truly love someone, you would nurture him / her. How do you nurture? If you are a parent, you would know how to nurture your baby by holding, kissing, hugging, or singing lullabies. If you are a plant lover, you would know how to nurture your plant by watering it. If you are a pet lover, you would pet it, or even kiss it. If you have a boyfriend / girlfriend, you would express your care by spending time together, doing something fun together, supporting, kissing, touching, etc. If you have a spouse, you would keep on loving by doing small things every day to let your spouse know how much you care, love, appreciate, admire, and adore him / her. We are all human beings. Basic human needs are to love and to be loved, to be appreciated, and to be wanted. In summary, you will never want to take your loved ones for granted.

4. True love is patient.
If you truly love someone, you would be patient with him / her. This is an ongoing lesson for many people. I know. It takes practice. How do you practice being patient? Here are some questions for you to ask yourself when things don't come your way.

* What am I impatient about?
* How does being impatient help me?
* What makes me feel impatient?
* What is it about this person / situation that I don't like? Do I see my own reflection in the other person?
* What can I do to make me feel at peace?
* What would be my best solution right now to solve this problem?
* What attitude do I need to change in order to help me see and feel better about the person or situation?
* What is the benefit of holding on to the ideas of how things should be?
* What would be my great benefit to allow the process to be and to accept things / people the way they are?

Reagrd  KevinLLee

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